Senin, 31 Mei 2010

Love is Art

I found the fruit of a auspicious tree on the balcony. The soil in the bowl is so lack of water that seems to split with wide cracks, or even will be able to pull out from the pot if push slightly. But she had vitality of the buds with the powerful life, and the pale yellow-green color is very lovable. I may be too busy and have no time to take care of her, perhaps simply in no mood to pay attention to her.

I think she need my attentionvery much, and I rushed to pick up to give her a little water. I think she would enjoy it and can drink happily. I gave her loose cultivation, wanted her to out of the confined life.

I think she should be lack of fertilizer, and one day I asked my colleagues for a number of compound fertilizer. After returning home I am pleased to put fertilizer into the inquiry with the powder and water, carefully pouring in fertilizer together with the water. I think this time her nutrition should be enough, and enjoy lengthy bar!

A few days later, I inadvertently found out that she leaves some of Danian head down a sick look. I was very puzzled, this is why?

Again a few days later, I found her brown leaves, and shoots has gradually shrunk. But I still hope that she can thrive, as before.

However, she never issued a fresh buds, and her branch had been completely dry.

I was beated heavilly by the objective laws,and noted that everyone will be failure if he is inconsistent with it.
Love should be an art, but also pay attention to certain methods, if love blindly, will receive the opposite effact even hurt the one u love. The result was just a tragic ending.

Who can know what the love is on the world? Who can not ask what is love along the five thousand years?

Love is sweet and also have pain.Love is where has happiness and also upset.But for me , i think love should be implicit.

Fresh Roses Will Make Her Day Special

The story of love begins in the heart it is a feeling that cannot be defined. It is a word that calls for action on the part of someone to express their feelings. Whether it is a husband, boy friend, lover, boss, friend or their children. When a lady receives fresh roses they will make her day special. From the biggest city to the most remote part of the world the appreciation of love is expressed in a rose.
Roses bring joy to the lady who receives them regardless of the occasion. Children show their mother that they love and respect her through the gift of a bouquet of roses. This expression of love says to their mom, we appreciate you and all the love you have given to us. The memory of this act of heart felt love will lift her spirits and keep her forever young.
I believe that Adam brought Eve a rose every morning in the garden of Eden. That Romeo showed his love for Juliet with a rose every time he went to see her. From the beginning of time in all cultures man has expressed his love with flowers. I believe that after the Caveman found out that the knock on the head did not ease her wrath, that he gave roses. When the Spartans returned from battle they brought fresh roses for their lovers.
Love is like all other things in life if we are not going forward with it then we are going backward. Love is like any other fire it must be fed to stay alive. If we do not feed the flames of fire we call love it will soon be dead. That is why gift giving is so important to maintaining the life of love. Roses are the key to keeping any lady in a good mood. Roses come in all colors and can be used to brighten up any room or decoration.
Women are more emotional then men. They have a deeper understanding and in reality are smarter then we men are. That is why her mood is so important to a happy family life. Fresh roses they will make her day special.
by: straightwade

Rabu, 26 Mei 2010

Find True Love - What Does True Love Look Like?

Finding True Love: What Is True Love?

There are different types of love:

Agape -- unconditional love, God for mankind
Philia -- Philiadepia, the city of brotherly love, or love that exists between close friends.
Storge -- Love that grows between family members.
Eros -- sexual, erotic love

Source: wiki.answers.com

In today's modern culture, romantic love is usually based on Eros, which is the most immediate and lowest form. Philos grows over time, although sometimes two people can meet and feel like they have known each other forever. Agape, between people, is revealed over time by enjoying the good times and weathering the storms. Agape is where character is also revealed. This one is truly a gift from God. An example of Storge could be where we would die for one another as for a beloved brother or child. For marriage, ideally there will be a mix of all.

So what is love?

It is written:

"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails."
1 Corinthians 13: 4 - 8

So then, what does true love look like?

Love is patient. So be patient with each other. None of us are perfect and we are all different.

It is not boastful. So be humble. Acknowledge that there are always others in your life who do make a difference in yours. None of us are an island.

Love is kind. At all times, choose to be kind. If your partner does something stupid, how about not mention it?

It does not envy. Rejoice in your partner's successes. Be encouraging. Also weep when they are weeping. Not every situation requires a solution.

It is not proud. Arrogance is not love.

Love always trusts. Even if you have doubt, choose to trust. If later, you are wrong, what is the worst that can happen?

Love always hopes. Choose to hope.

Are you seeing the common theme? Love is a choice!

Cathy J Elliss is a writer, speaker, consultant and trainer. She is passionate about personal development and helping single women find their true love. Check out her site http://www.SmartLadyDating.com - don't forget to get her free eBook 'Find True Love'

Married Men Who Fall in Love With Another Woman

When a man gets married he usually expects that the marriage will last forever and that both will be happy and stay faithful to each other. Sadly statistics show that a third of marriages end in divorce and half of those that do not end in divorce are unhappy for one or both people.

Some men are players and should never have got married in the first place, but then you have to wonder how come the wife who married him did not pick this up before they got married. She thinks she knows him and loves him but does not. A player will cheat regardless of whether his wife is nice, caring, sexy or great company, simply because he cannot stay in a monogamous relationship for a long time. He gets bored with monogamy or he needs the excitement of having a secret and sneaking around.

Most men who are married would love to be able to cheat on their wife and try to find women who are interested in having an encounter with them, of course most women are not interested and prefer to see a single man. This is why a lot of men resort to cyber sex or phone sex, massage parlours and brothels. They do not like it, it dents their ego as well as their bank balance, but needs must.

The married man who entered into his marriage expecting it would work and then finding out it was not as good as he expected will feel guilty about sneaking around and lying and he will only cheat if he finds someone he likes a lot and feels he can get very close to emotionally. With him it is not about sex, it is about love and romance. A nice decent genuine man does not find it easy to lie or cheat, he feels the situation is forced upon him.

The thing is it would have been better for him to talk to his wife about how he feels and sort it out. He could have told her what is making him unhappy and worked at putting it right, rather than having secrets and going off for secret meets. Once a relationship has secrets it is sliding downhill fast, once the man is sneaking around and being elsewhere when he could have been at home, and neglecting his wife, they become like strangers to each other.

The married man also has to remember that a married woman might be quicker to agree to see him but she is often too busy with her commitments to her husband and family, so he might only get to see her very rarely. The single woman is more available but less likely to be interested or nagging him to leave his wife.

Very often having an affair only papers over the cracks of what is wrong at home and adds more problems to the original problem. If the married man is found out he might be thrown out and maybe lose a great deal and even if he is not thrown out things are never the same again.

My name is Carmel Brulez, I am a private relationship expert and life coach. I have helped famous people and rich people and I can help you too. I help people with their relationships, sex life and many health problems such as depression, anxiety, panic attacks, OCD etc. You can see my website at http://carmelbrulez.homestead.com/. You can read hundreds of articles written by me, under my name, Carmel Brulez, at http://www.helium.com/

How To Make A Girl Fall In Love With You

Getting a girl of your dreams is much like getting the car of your dream. But unlike a car which you can always bargain for, there is nothing like a 20 percent discount in courting the girl of your dreams, she's so sweet a thing to be discounted, you dearly are in love with her and your feelings for her can only be communicated not by the words of the mouth, but by the words of the heart. Getting the girl actually depends on how big your heart is - faint heart, never won fair lady.

The first step in the heart-winning exercise for any man is to make a good impression. In your doing so, you don't have to talk, dress or do the common things that all the Toms do to get a decent girl's attention. Be unique, that's all you need. Be a man of his own style. Dress decently - indecency can make one be mistaken for arrogance; watch your language - obscene language gives the impression of immaturity, being uncultured and cheap; be a man of good habits - don't drink or smoke like any other loser.

Let her fall in love gradually. Romance is an important part of falling in love. When in College I had a crush on the most beautiful lady in our first year lot. Though all senior guys were out to get that girl, I managed to divert her attention from the other guys. I wrote her three letters without disclosing my identity and slid into her room secretly; all I said was 'Yours Secret Admirer.' The first letter contained the meaning of her name, this I got by playing around with the initials of her name to make meaning. The second was a funny message that could only be read backwards and it was all about her physique and her smartness. In the third letter I told the girl to be ready to receive a rose flower from her admirer, but only if she could be kind enough to phone him using a number that I had included in the letter. The girl did phone me that very night, and her first words to me were, "Hallo Secret Admirer." So, the story of our love affair came to be. Later she told me that was so creative of me, no one had approached her in that manner. I made her fall in love with me in the romantic manner.

Befriending and understanding the girl you are out to get is the next important thing. This is what I also did. You have to understand that as a lady, she loves to be loved, adores to be adored and needs to be needed. This will move you closer to the girl and you'll get to know what she's into, what she likes and dislikes, and what her style is. Love is built upon friendship and it always leaves individuals better off having known each other should they break up. I and my College steady were to break some time later but to date, we are the best of buddies. Be sure that bringing out the selflessness friend in you will make her create room for you in her heart.

A shoulder to lean on and some good friend that she can always turn to is all that a lady wants. Please don't hesitate to be helpful and supportive. Be that friend who rekindles her zeal of hardworking and restoring hope back into her life when she looses hope. This above all other things will make you her daily vitamin simply because you bring out the best in her in terms of personality and character. In you, she'll have found that friend whom she can open up to, share with and advice each other on the rights and wrongs, the dos and don'ts of life. Don't forget to always be there to celebrate the good times, and to lend an ear when the girl needs you to listen as a friend.

Make the girl feel special; because she's someone's friend - your friend, and let her know that she too has touched your life in a unique way like no one else could. Compliment her for her company and for being there when you needed her, when you felt sad and all alone. Show appreciations for the comfort the girl offers you and for making you smile.

In your day to day talks, share your dreams, your world, and every aspect of your life with your girl. Always dream with her, build with her, and always cheer her on and encourage her. Tell your girl how you always think about her even when you try not to think about her. Let the girl know that she's your first thing in the morning and the last thing when you go to bed at night.

Her knowing that you were thinking of her when you slipped beneath the softness of your blanket and gave in to the bliss of sweet dreams, will make her go 'my my' and her heart will sing your name all the year round.

You have to be creative and constructive to keep girl's interest in you so full of life. I remember one time I told my girlfriend to be to imagine we are both deaf and dump. We then sat opposite each other on the table and started sharing our feelings for each other using eyes and hand signs. It turned out to be some fun. There was also this time that we were in the library and we decided we are not going to speak to each other verbal, so I wrote a love note on a paper and passed it across the table to her, she replied and on and on we carried on our love on paper conversation till we almost exhausted a whole rim of paper. At sometime, I noticed that some guys sited with us on the table were enjoying our ordeal than their studies. Such are the things that made the girl embrace my world. I remember her suggesting that we play deaf and dump two years after we broke up, can you imagine that?

Never fail to phone her, even when she least expects it. I once called some girl that I was interested in at four o'clock in the morning. When inquiring of what I was doing up so early, I told her I was in thirteenth heaven, where people think of their loved ones when they can't sleep. Wow! First thing early the next morning, she was at my door with a king-sized hug for me.
No matter how many dates you take her, don't make any elbow - exceeding moves after any date, just drop her home and with a friendly handshake, wish her good night. Don't kiss her when she expects you to. Your respect as a gentleman will be earned on how patient you are with her when it comes to such matters as kissing her and accessing her inner graces.

The writing is on the wall that you want her, but you can't have her just yet. Increase your demand. Try to show her that men are also hard to get at times. Make her realize that when she feels a little dizzy, a little tired, a little sad, a little sick, a lot bored and very much cold, she's actually missing vitamin you. By this time, she'll be so much into you and since love is truthful and is characterized by open and honest communication, honestly promise her your everlasting devotion, loyalty, respect, and your unconditional love for a lifetime. Prove to her that you'll always be there for her, to listen and to hold her hand, and that you'll always do your best to make her happy, and feel loved.

Remember, patience is the key to her heart; be like that gardener watching a fruit as it hangs on the tree, day after day admiring it, but, exercising tremendous self-discipline, neither feeling the fruit, nor pinching it, nor testing it to see if it is ready. And then, one day he holds out his hand and the fruit simply drops into it, ripe, warm and eager to be eaten.

The patience and self-control which you practice will make you more attractive and charming. This will qualify you as her daily vitamin and win you that heart hers.

I wish you to meet the girl of your dreams ASAP, make her fall in love with you, and make her feel the happiest girl in the world!

Vlad Karl is a writer who maintains a dating and love relationship column on http://www.meetingland.com.

Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Vlad_Karl

Play love games for girls,maybe you can play in another way

Do you like playing love games for girls?!the love games can makes you feel sweet from the lovers’happiness,and now you can play another funny love games for girls,it is about the frog games,you can make the frogs kissing and in the end ,you will see a surprise result.

In the love games for girls,you always can see two people there are kissing or you can dressing them up with wonderful dresses that they can have a wonderful dating then,and now you can do this in a funny way.

At first you can see there are two little frogs are there kissing each other,so you should help them to kiss,and you can see there are hearts there below,when they are kissing for a loong time,the number of the hearts will increase.

But you should be care in this kind of freee online games for girls,when they are kissing,there will be other frogs there disturb them and you will see they can’t keep kissing then,so you should help them in the love game for girls,just to make other frogs away.

It is interesting to see the littke frog there,and in the end you will see another scene,how will it to be?

You can do your best to win the love games for girls,and in the end you willl know the results,so have a good time and enjoy the free online games for girls here.

by: hotgamesforgirls

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