When a man gets married he usually expects that the marriage will last forever and that both will be happy and stay faithful to each other. Sadly statistics show that a third of marriages end in divorce and half of those that do not end in divorce are unhappy for one or both people.
Some men are players and should never have got married in the first place, but then you have to wonder how come the wife who married him did not pick this up before they got married. She thinks she knows him and loves him but does not. A player will cheat regardless of whether his wife is nice, caring, sexy or great company, simply because he cannot stay in a monogamous relationship for a long time. He gets bored with monogamy or he needs the excitement of having a secret and sneaking around.
Most men who are married would love to be able to cheat on their wife and try to find women who are interested in having an encounter with them, of course most women are not interested and prefer to see a single man. This is why a lot of men resort to cyber sex or phone sex, massage parlours and brothels. They do not like it, it dents their ego as well as their bank balance, but needs must.
The married man who entered into his marriage expecting it would work and then finding out it was not as good as he expected will feel guilty about sneaking around and lying and he will only cheat if he finds someone he likes a lot and feels he can get very close to emotionally. With him it is not about sex, it is about love and romance. A nice decent genuine man does not find it easy to lie or cheat, he feels the situation is forced upon him.
The thing is it would have been better for him to talk to his wife about how he feels and sort it out. He could have told her what is making him unhappy and worked at putting it right, rather than having secrets and going off for secret meets. Once a relationship has secrets it is sliding downhill fast, once the man is sneaking around and being elsewhere when he could have been at home, and neglecting his wife, they become like strangers to each other.
The married man also has to remember that a married woman might be quicker to agree to see him but she is often too busy with her commitments to her husband and family, so he might only get to see her very rarely. The single woman is more available but less likely to be interested or nagging him to leave his wife.
Very often having an affair only papers over the cracks of what is wrong at home and adds more problems to the original problem. If the married man is found out he might be thrown out and maybe lose a great deal and even if he is not thrown out things are never the same again.
My name is Carmel Brulez, I am a private relationship expert and life coach. I have helped famous people and rich people and I can help you too. I help people with their relationships, sex life and many health problems such as depression, anxiety, panic attacks, OCD etc. You can see my website at http://carmelbrulez.homestead.com/. You can read hundreds of articles written by me, under my name, Carmel Brulez, at http://www.helium.com/
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